Friday, December 2, 2016

OUR STANCE ON TODAY'S ISSUES - Abortion


With the past presidential election, there has been much talk about abortion and whether it should be legal at certain stages of embryonic development. We here at Children of Father God and Mother Earth believe life is sacred, and should not be terminated at a whim or because of lifestyle choices. That being said, we also recognize that there are circumstances where abortion should be a viable alternative for consideration. The 16-year-old girl who has been repeatedly raped by her step-father should not be forced to carry and give birth to a child that has resulted from her victimization. The woman who simply has the bad luck to live in a part of the country where something like the Zika virus flourishes should have the option of terminating a pregnancy when tests have shown that the fetus is brain damaged. The women in these cases need to be able to go to a hospital, where the equipment and resources are available in case of complications, and have the procedure they have chosen.

            However, the procedure of abortion should never be used as a mode of contraception. The young girl who gets knocked up in the back seat of her boyfriend’s car, the mother of four who does not want to take the pill because it makes her fat, the call girl who simply forgot a step with one of her customers, all of these should not be able to get abortions simply because it is more convenient or fits into their lifestyles better than carrying and giving birth to a child. Organizations such as Planned Parenthood can give out all the condoms, contraceptive pills, and educational fliers they wish, but abortions should not be available in clinics where emergencies could not be met with the same expertise as they would be in a regular hospital, and certainly never for free.

            Scientific testing shows that a fetus responds to stimuli with movement at six weeks of development. This means that the fetus is a living and viable entity, even if not conscious, six weeks after conception. Abortion after this stage is the termination of the life of a living, sacred being, and should not be available at a neighborhood clinic. Women should have the choice of what happens to their bodies, but they also need to take responsibility for their actions with those same bodies. If a woman does not want to get pregnant, she needs to abstain from sex or, if this is not an option, insist on using a contraceptive measure. The unborn should not have to pay the price for our lifestyle choices.

Wednesday, August 3, 2016

PERSONAL JOURNEYS - Calendar

There are many dates and holidays on the modern calendar that many people celebrate, whether in a worshipful way or just as a day to be with family and friends in enjoyable companionship. We now offer a list of days that we as a body celebrate. Since we are based in the United States and originate in the Christian religion, there are holidays on this calendar that will be specific to that country and religion. Others in other countries who join with us online will celebrate other holidays that are specific to their own countries or the belief systems that they originate from. This is a list that is simply for reference and guidance. Celebrations may be done at personal altars on or near these dates, as well as other days that may be sacred to the worshiper.

                        January
1st        New Year’s Day
February
1st        Candlemas
14th      St Valentine’s Day
                  March
17th      St Patrick’s Day
21st      Spring Equinox
                        April
30th      Beltane
(Easter Sunday will be celebrated sometime in late March or during the month of April, depending on the moon cycle)
                        June
21st      Midsummer (Summer Solstice)
                        July
4th        Independence Day (United States only)
                        August
1st        Lammas
                        September
22nd      Harvestide (Autumn Equinox)
                        October
31st      Halloween (Samhain)
                        November
4th Thursday (date varies)       Thanksgiving Day (United States only)
                        December
21st      Winter Solstice
25th      Christmas


Thursday, June 2, 2016

PERSONAL JOURNEYS - Communion


Communion is a sacrament that most Christian followers try to make sure they do at least once in a while. Different churches can do communion at different intervals. Some, like the Catholic and Mormon churches, perform this sacrament once a week. Others, like many Baptist or Lutheran congregations, once a month. And, still others do not perform it but twice a year, usually at the times of Easter and Christmas. The Catholic Church is adamant in teaching that only priests can perform this sacrament, while many Protestant churches believe only their ministers can perform it. There are others, however, that teach that anyone may perform the sacrament of communion, as long as their hearts are repentant and their minds open to the blessings.

            As a body of believers, we at Children of Father God and Mother Earth hold to the last position, that anyone may perform the sacrament of communion. However, we recommend that, if our fellow followers feel somewhat awkward doing it, there are many places where they may go online to have themselves legally ordained as ministers, and then they can rest assured that they have every legal right to administer this sacrament. The online site we usually guide our followers to is the Universal Life Church, or Universal Life Seminary. This organization will ordain anyone a minister, no matter what belief system they follow, complete with ordination credentials. This ordination also provides the legal ability in many states to officiate at weddings, baptisms, and funerals. There is no cost for this service, and it will provide reassurance in the ability of the follower to administer the sacrament of communion. (Please make sure you find the Universal Life Church that is based in Modesto, California, as there is another place called The Monastery that sometimes masquerades as this church for profit.)

            We have a communion prayer and ritual that we have found extremely helpful to the newer follower who wishes to administer communion to themselves and those in their household. It is based heavily on the Catholic Eucharist service that is conducted in Catholic churches all over the world once a week, but, once the follower becomes comfortable with their new role, they may make changes to fit their own preferences.

            For this sacrament, you will need the food and drink that will fulfill the requirement of the body and blood of Christ. Pieces of crackers and some fruit juice is usually used for this purpose, and will allow small children the opportunity to participate fully, where a glass of wine might prohibit their participation. However, any kind of food and drink that is readily available will be acceptable, as the ritual symbolically changes both of these items into the body and blood of Christ. These items should be placed on the altar.

The presenter will stand before the altar with any others arranged behind him/her in a semi-circle. The candles are lit with the dedications mentioned in the previous post titled “Personal Altars.” The presenter then conducts the following ritual (all words that are in italics should be said by all participants).

Blessed are you, Lord God of all Creation, for through your goodness we have received the bread we offer you, fruit of the Earth and work of human hands, it will become for us the bread of life.

Blessed be God forever.

Blessed are you, Lord God of all Creation, for through your goodness we have received the drink we offer you, fruit of the Earth and work of human hands, it will become our spiritual drink.

Blessed be God forever.

With humble spirit and contrite heart, may we be accepted by you. O Lord, and may our sacrifice in your sight this day be pleasing to you, Lord God. We now pray that this sacrifice may be acceptable to God, the almighty Father.

May the Lord accept this sacrifice for the praise and glory of His name, for our good, and for the good of all His holy Church.

The Lord be with us. We lift up our hearts. Let us give thanks to the Lord, our God. It is truly right and just, our duty and our salvation, always and everywhere, to give you thanks, Father most holy, through your beloved Son, Jesus Christ, your Word, through whom you made all things, whom you sent as our Savior and Redeemer, incarnate by the Holy Spirit and born of the Virgin. Fulfilling your will and gaining for you a holy people, He stretched out his hands as He endured His Passion, so as to break the bonds of death and manifest the resurrection. And so, with the angels and all the saints, we declare your glory. You are indeed holy, O Lord, the fount of all holiness. Make holy, therefore, these gifts, we pray, by sending down your Spirit upon them like the dewfall, so that they may become for us the body and blood of our Lord, Jesus Christ.

This is the mystery of faith:

We proclaim your death, O Lord, and profess your resurrection, until you come again.

Therefore, as we celebrate the memorial of His death and resurrection, we offer you, Lord, the Bread of Life and the Chalice of Salvation, giving thanks that you have held us worthy to be in your presence and minister to you. Humbly we pray that, partaking of the body and blood of Christ, we may be gathered into one by the Holy Spirit. Remember, Lord, your church, spread throughout the world, and bring her to the fullness of charity. Remember, also, our brothers and sisters who have fallen asleep in the hope of the resurrection, and all who have died in your mercy. Welcome them into the light of your face. Have mercy on us all, we pray, that, with the blessed Virgin Mary, Mother of God, with the blessed apostles, and all the saints who have pleased you throughout the ages, we may merit to be co-heirs to eternal life, and may praise and glorify you through your Son, Jesus Christ. Through Him, with Him, in Him, O God, almighty Father, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, all glory and honor is yours, forever and ever. Lord Jesus Christ, who said to your apostles, “Peace I leave you, my peace I give you,” look not on our sins, but on the faith of your church, and graciously grant her peace and unity in accordance with your will. May this mingling of the body and blood of our Lord, Jesus Christ, bring eternal life of all who receive it.

Lamb of God, you take away the sins of the world, have mercy on us.

Lamb of God, your take away the sins of the world, have mercy on us.

Lamb of God, you take away the sins of the world, grant us peace.

Lord Jesus Christ, Son of the living God, who, by the will of the Father, and the work of the Holy Spirit, through your death gave life to the world, free us by this, your most holy body and blood, from all our sins, and from every evil. Keep us always faithful to your commandments, and never let us be parted from you. Behold the Lamb of God, behold Him who takes away the sins of the world. Blessed are those who are called to the supper of the Lamb.

Lord, I am not worthy that you should enter under my roof, but only say the word and my soul shall be healed.

At the time He was betrayed and entered willingly into His Passion, He took the bread and, giving thanks, broke it, and gave it to His disciples, saying, “Take this, all of you, and eat of it, for this is my body, which will be given up for you.”

(The body of Christ is then shared with all participants.)

In a similar way, when supper was ended, He gook the chalice, and, once more giving thanks, He gave it to his disciples, saying, “Take this, all of you, and drink from it, for this is the chalice of my blood, the blood of the new and eternal covenant, which will be poured out for you and for many, for the forgiveness of sins. Do this in memory of me.”

(The blood of Christ is then shared with all participants.)

            A hymn may then be sung, and the benediction mentioned in the previous post “Personal Altars” said to end the ritual.

We at Children of Father God and Mother Earth encourage those of our group to perform the sacrament of communion at least once a month, and also at Christmas and Easter. However, communion may be performed as much or as little as the individual requires. The important thing to remember is that this (along with prayer) is a way of becoming closer to the Creator, and that the mind and heart must be open to this blessing to receive its full benefits.

Saturday, April 2, 2016

PERSONAL JOURNEYS - Personal Altars


One of the things that accomplishes spiritual growth more than anything else is to have a personal altar in your home that allows you to pray, worship, and celebrate your own personal rituals in private. Many people prefer to have these sacred spaces in an unused bedroom or shed, where they can also retire to read, write, meditate, or listen to music; in other words, to have some “me time.” However, not all living arrangements allow for this. There are those who live either with others or in very small accommodations, and this means that their altar must be situated in an area that is used for other activities on a daily basis. Where the altar is set up is not a matter of importance, as long as it is used for the purpose for which it is intended.

            On a personal altar there should be at least three candles, a burner for incense, and a goblet or small cauldron that can hold liquid. There should also be a receptacle for spent matches from lighting the candles, as this is more convenient than having to leave the altar to run to the garbage can at the beginning of each ritual or prayer. My altar has three votive candles, an old ashtray that serves as an incense burner, and a colored glass goblet that serves to hold liquid when needed. I live in a small place, so my altar is situated on top of a small bookcase with a picture of the Virgin Mary in the guise of the Mother Goddess above it.
                                    

 

            Of course, this is the bare minimum for an altar. There can be more candles of larger sizes, crosses, statues of various gods or goddesses, stones and crystals, anything that is of personal relevance to the worshipper. In addition, there may be items that can be added and removed from the altar as deemed necessary. For holidays, items that are appropriate for that season may be there, as well as a plate and cup that can hold food and drink for rituals that may require them. Being of the Christian persuasion, I include a plate and cup for communion, a cross for Easter, a picture of the Madonna and Child for the Christmas season, and an American flag for the celebration of our Independence Day. Also, it is not necessary to have real candles if this presents a danger to your living conditions. I have a small battery operated votive candle that I leave lit all night on Christmas Eve, allowing me to have this tradition and not be afraid that a lit candle may be knocked over by my cat in the middle of the night.

 


            When a prayer or ritual is begun, you should light each candle with a dedication to the spirits or deities that it is being lit in honor of. For instance:

            Light the first candle while saying, “I light this candle in honor of Father God, Creator of the universe, and Mother Earth, she who stands in unity with the Creator.”

            Light the second candle while saying, “I light this candle in honor of the angels of Heaven and Earth, who stand by the right hand of the Creator.”

            Light the third candle while saying, “I light this candle in honor of my own Guardian Angels, whom the Creator has sent to guide, protect, and comfort me.”

            If you do not wish to use sulfur matches for this, you may use a butane lighter, however, I prefer lighting the consequential matches from the flame of the first candle and carrying it over to the others, thereby taking the flame that has been consecrated in honor of the Creator to the others also.

            At the conclusion of each prayer or ritual, a benediction should be said, such as, “In the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Ghost, so mote it be,” before the candles are blown out. I also enjoy lighting a candle on my altar each day, dedicating it to the Creator, and letting it burn for at least 15 minutes. This keeps the altar “warm” with spiritual energy, adds reverence to the day, and, since my altar is in a public area, creates nice ambiance due to the scented candles I use. In addition, I try to make a habit of lighting a stick of incense and letting it burn until it goes out at least once a week. I believe that this carries my prayers and intentions up to Heaven with the smoke, and also scents my home.

            Of course, having a personal altar is not a requirement for spiritual growth, and the dedications and benediction mentioned here are only suggestions. The rituals, prayers, and words used should be up to the individual, and should reflect their own personal belief system. However, a personal altar gives additional meaning and beauty to any sacred act, and we highly recommend having one in your home.

Wednesday, February 3, 2016

PERSONAL JOURNEYS - Daily Readings, Devotions, Prayers, and Affirmations

This section of our efforts is going to be devoted to the ways and means by which we have such an ardent and fulfilling spiritual life within our body of believers. As has been stated before, we do not have any concrete and glass structure that we all travel to in order to share and worship. Our community is an exclusively online fellowship, and, therefore, involves followers from all over the country, and, indeed, the world. Therefore, how we worship is strictly of personal preference, and carried out in private spaces.
            We accept all who come to us with open hearts and minds, and we do not condemn any belief system, except those that preach or teach hatred and violence. However, we have found, through sharing with one another, that we have some common practices that we have all found to be immensely helpful in our spiritual walks. In this section, we will be sharing these practices so that others may profit from them as we have. We do not contend that anyone must follow these practices, as worship should be as individual as those performing it. But, we do hope that this section will help those who feel they want to take their own private worship to the next level.

Daily Readings, Devotions, Prayers, and Affirmations
            The most important thing about worship is that it should not be something that is done only once a week or on special holidays. Worship should be something that is as much a part of life as breathing. The daily habit of reading, praying, and affirming ourselves and our beliefs is very important, in that it brings us back to the reasons of why we live and believe as we do on a daily basis, thereby affirming our inner strengths and giving us peace.
            Many people prefer to do these things in the mornings, when they first rise and as part of their morning routines, however there is no set time or place that they need to be done. To do them in the middle of the day, before going to bed, or on a lunch break, will in no way demean them or make them of less importance. The important thing is that they be done, every day, regularly and faithfully.
            The first of these things is a daily reading of whatever Holy Scriptures that you hold dear. These may be from the Holy Bible, the Book of Mormon, the Rig Veda, the Koran, the I Ching, or any of the other numerous volumes of holy writings that have come into being throughout the ages. If your belief system has no holy writings, then a selection from a book of poetry that speaks to you of your beliefs may be appropriate. The reading should be of fairly short duration, 5-10 minutes, and should be of spiritual and personal quality to the individual.
            The second thing should be some sort of devotion. A devotion is a short lesson based upon a premise presented in the form of a verse or section of sacred writings. There are devotional books from all the different religious beliefs of the world, many of them for little or no cost, available in book stores and online. Our suggestion is that you pick one and try it. If you do not feel that it is correct for you, you will not need to get anything else from that particular belief system again. This is also a great way of finding out what other belief systems are and what they believe in. A good devotion should take you about 10-15 minutes to get through.
            Now is the time for the third part of our daily exercises, the prayer. Prayers can take many shapes, and the shape of the individual’s prayer should be exclusively up to them. We, at Children of Father God and Mother Earth, are rooted in the Christian belief system, and so we have many things that adhere to that particular way of worship. We have a prayer for this time that is an eclectic mix of certain prayers found in the Holy Bible, but is helpful in focusing the mind of the person reciting it. It goes like this:
            Our Father who art in Heaven
            Hallowed be Thy name
            Thy kingdom come
            Thy will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven
            Give us this day our daily bread
            And forgive us our trespasses
            As we forgive those who trespass against us
            Lead us not into temptation
            But deliver us from evil
            Dear Lord, I pray that you will bless me indeed
            Give me the resources to keep a roof over me and mine
            And food on our table
            As I continue to walk the road that you have placed me on
            Dear Lord, I pray that you will enhance my domain
            Give me new things to do and to learn
            To stretch me as an individual
            As I continue in the work that you have given me to accomplish
            Dear Lord, I pray that you will keep your hand ever upon me to keep me from evil
            Clothe me in your armor
            To protect me from the fiery darts of the enemy
            But give me my own sword of courage and wisdom
            So that I may, through your strength, fight the darkness wherever it may be found
            Even if it is within myself
            Dear Lord, I thank you for yesterday, today, and tomorrow
            I thank you for all that you have done, are doing, and will do in my life
            I turn my family, my friends, and all that I hold dear
            Over to your guidance, your protection, and your peace
            And, giving you all the praise, and the honor, and the glory
            I pray all these things in the name of your Son and my Savior
            Jesus Christ.
            Amen.
This prayer has been very helpful to many of our followers, and we offer it to you here in hopes that it will also be helpful to you along your spiritual journey.
            The last part of daily exercises should be affirmations. Affirmations are small sentences that usually begin with “I am,” or “I will.” These are meant to be self-affirming to the individual, in that they are a way to speak positivity to our own subconscious, and therefore into our lives. There are many affirmations that can be said to ourselves. Some of them may be like this:
            I am a beautiful person and God loves me.
            I do not need to be concerned with what anyone but God thinks of me.
            I am blessed and all is well.
            I am getting better every day and it will only continue.
Affirmations are ways to confirm our specialness to God and the rest of the world we live in. These can be very useful to those who are perhaps a little overwhelmed with the cares and worries of life. Affirmations can be as few or as many as the individual wishes, but should only take about five minutes to recite.

            Daily readings, devotions, prayers, and affirmations should usually take only about 20-30 minutes to accomplish on a daily basis. This duration may be lengthened if the individual wishes to add meditation or a longer prayer time. However, making time for these things in one’s daily routine can add immeasurable depth and spiritual meaning to anyone looking for those things in their lives.